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Welcome to Learn with Lovers, a one-stop-shop for all the questions you've ever had about sexual wellness, discovering and maximizing pleasure, and the innovative world of sex toys that help you do just that.

THE TOP BEGINNER SEX TOYS OF 2022

Interested in buying your first sex toy? We've rounded up the top beginner sex toys of 2022 to help you find your perfect match!

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BALL SO HARD: A BEGINNER'S GUIDE TO TESTICLE PLAY

Do you like having your balls played with? We are nuts about it! Read our Beginner's Guide to Testicle Play to learn about the one thing you NEVER want to do while engaging...

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SEX & DISABILITY: HOW TO COMBAT ABLEISM IN THE BEDROOM

People with disabilities are often viewed as asexual, despite the fact that many disabilities do not influence people's sex drives. Disability advocate and consultant, Andrew Gurza explains how to combat...

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AM I JUST NERVOUS? A TRAUMA-INFORMED APPROACH TO CONSENT

Enthusiastic consent is not always black-and-white. Guest author, Cory Bush, joins us to explain more about what a trauma-informed approach to consent looks like. Continue reading to see Cory's best...

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CANCELING SEX DUE TO CHRONIC ILLNESS OR DISABILITY

What would it feel like to cancel sex because of a physical condition or disability? Disability advocate, Andrew Gurza, guest writes this column on sex & disability, offering up three ways...

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LOVERS PLEASURE UNIVERSITY: KINK & BDSM 101

It’s time for a crash course in pleasure! Which of our four, 101-subjects will you be taking notes on this semester? Today's Lovers University Blog explores the world of BDSM, and the best...

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A GUIDE TO MANAGING MISMATCHED LIBIDOS

Is your sex drive higher or lower than your partner’s? It’s not as uncommon as you might think and it doesn’t have to be an endless source of frustration. We’re...

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LOVERS PLEASURE UNIVERSITY: MODERN PLEASURE EDUCATION

Thinking about buying your first sex toy? This guide will help you to build confidence in your purchases by explaining the different styles of sex toys and how they can influence a person's sexual...

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