At Lovers Stores, our collection of large dildos is designed to deliver extraordinary satisfaction for those who enjoy deeper, fuller, and more intense sensations. This bold selection is curated with quality, safety, and variety in mind, offering big dildos that cater to a wide range of preferences and experience levels. Whether you’re looking to explore solo or spice things up with a partner, our large dildos provide everything from realistic detail to fantasy-inspired shapes. With expertly crafted contours, generous sizing, and premium materials, our assortment is all about enhancing your pleasure in bold and adventurous ways.
So, what exactly makes a dildo "large"? It’s all about dimensions. While the average dildo tends to fall between 5 and 7 inches in length, a large dildo typically starts at around 8 inches and can extend up to 15 inches or more. But length is only one part of the equation, thick dildos are just as important in defining this category. The girth plays a huge role in how "big" a dildo truly feels. Big dildos often have a thicker shaft, adding to that full, stretched sensation users crave. The category of large dildos also includes toys with exaggerated heads, extra width at the base, or advanced textures to further enhance stimulation.
Benefits of Big Dildos
One of the most exciting aspects of using a big dildo is the heightened sensation of fullness. For many, this creates a more satisfying and intense experience, leading to stronger orgasms and deeper internal stimulation. These dildos also offer an ideal way to explore size kinks, fantasy scenarios, or personal boundaries, all in a safe, controlled setting. Thick dildos can provide a powerful physical challenge and offer new levels of stimulation that smaller toys simply can’t match. Whether you're exploring solo or with a partner, the extra stretch and pressure can stimulate more nerve endings, helping to increase pleasure for those who enjoy that deeper connection.
Types of Big Dildos at Lovers Stores
At Lovers Stores we offer a wide range of large and extra large dildos, from ultra-realistic models to fantasy and oversized designs. If you're after lifelike texture, the Colours Dual Density 8in Dildo is a popular option that features a firm yet flexible shaft, realistic detailing including testicals and suction cup base. For something even larger, the Dr. Skin Large Realistic 9" Dildo and Evolved True Feel Poseable 8.5in Dildo deliver truly intense experiences with prominent veins, lifelike feel and choice of colours. Prefer the ultimate realistic challenge? Why not opt for a large vibrating dildo like the Dr. Skin Realistic Vibrating 7" Dildo or a vibrating and thrusting option like the Dr. Brody 8.75in Vibrating & Thrusting Dildo - an extra large dildo that brings sheer size, realism and extra sensations together in one impressive toy.
Should you prefer a large dildo that doesn’t offer realistic textures, our assortment also includes non-realistic large dildos such as the Sweet Sex Sweetheart Bendable Dildo 7in and the Avant Sun's Out 7.5in Dildo. For extra large non-realistic dildos Doc Johnson Big Boy 12" Dildo offers extra length, girth and a number of colour choices. Many of these big dildos are harness-compatible, ideal for strap-on play, and feature strong suction cups for hands-free use on flat surfaces.
Whether you're looking for solo exploration or a shared experience with a partner, these examples are just a few dildos that offer a variety of shapes, above average sizes, and functions available in our Lovers.
What Types of Material Are They?
At Lovers Stores we take great pride in offering large dildos made from high-quality, body-safe materials. You’ll find several toys crafted from medical-grade silicone, which is known for being non-porous, hypoallergenic, and incredibly smooth. This material is ideal for people with sensitive skin and offers an overall more comfortable, flexible experience. We also offer liquid silicone options that provide a softer, more realistic touch that mimics the feel of human skin.
If you’re after a firmer experience, our big dildo collection includes PVC dildos that are durable and provide a slightly harder surface that many users enjoy. All materials used are chosen with both pleasure and safety in mind, offering peace of mind with every use.
Using A Large Dildo Responsibly
Given their size and potential intensity, it’s important to use large dildos safely and responsibly. Always begin with ample water-based lubricant, as this reduces friction and helps make insertion more comfortable. Take your time, especially if you’re new to big dildos. Begin with foreplay, smaller sex toys or external stimulation adult toys like bullet vibrators and pulsators to relax the body, and slowly introduce your large dildo as your comfort increases. It’s crucial to listen to your body, stop if there’s any discomfort, and avoid forcing anything.
For partnered play, communication is essential. Discuss boundaries, safe words, and check in regularly to ensure both partners are comfortable. Always clean your dildo before and after use, and store it properly to avoid contamination or material degradation.
Choosing Your First Big Dildo
If you're just starting your journey into larger toys, choosing the right dildo can make all the difference. Start by assessing your comfort level with penetration and consider whether you want a toy with more length, more girth, or both. Select a size that feels like a challenge, but not one that will be overwhelming. Toys like the Dr. Skin Realistic Vibrating 7" Dildo are perfect entry points into the big dildo category, it’s large enough to deliver satisfaction, yet manageable for beginners.
Choose a soft, flexible material like medical-grade silicone to ease your way into play. Look for features that support control, such as a flared base or suction cup. Suction cup dildos allow for hands-free experimentation, while a harness-compatible dildo opens the door to strap-on experiences. Be sure to read product descriptions carefully and don’t be afraid to go slow. Confidence and comfort grow with time and experience.
How to Clean and Store Your Dildo
Keeping your large dildo clean is a vital part of maintaining sexual health and prolonging the toy’s life. Wash it thoroughly with warm water and a mild soap, or use a specialist toy cleaner designed for the material you’re using. Be sure to clean any textured areas or suction cups where residue might linger. After washing, pat the toy dry with a lint-free cloth and leave it to air dry fully before storing.
To store your dildo safely, keep it in a breathable pouch or storage bag — especially if it’s made of silicone, which can attract dust. Avoid storing different silicone toys together, as they can sometimes react and degrade. Store your toy in a cool, dry place, away from direct sunlight or heat.
Big Dildos FAQs
What dildo sizes are considered large?+
A dildo is typically considered "large" when it goes beyond standard sizing, usually starting at around 7 to 8 inches in length or featuring a noticeably thicker girth. Some extra large dildos can reach up to 15 inches or more and are crafted for users who enjoy a greater sense of fullness and stretch. At Lovers Stores, our dildos come in various shapes and sizes to suit different comfort levels, from manageable big dildos to toys designed for more advanced users.
Is it safe to use thick dildos regularly?+
Yes, thick dildos can be used regularly as long as you're following good practices for safety and comfort. Always start with plenty of lube, go slowly, and listen to your body; never force anything. Take breaks if needed, especially during longer sessions. As with any sex toy, it's also important to clean your dildo after each use to maintain hygiene and prevent irritation or infection.
Can I use a big dildo with a partner?+
Yes, many people enjoy using big dildos in partnered play. These toys can be used for mutual exploration, role play, or as part of strap-on play if they are harness-compatible. Suction-based dildos are also great for hands-free use during shared pleasure sessions. Communication is key, discuss boundaries, check in throughout the experience, and always prioritise comfort and consent when introducing any large toy into play with a partner.
Do all large dildos come with suction cups?+
Not all, but many of our dildos feature a strong suction base for added versatility. Suction cup dildos allow for hands-free use on flat, non-porous surfaces, which is ideal for solo play or use in the shower or bath. They can also make it easier to control a big dildo during play. Be sure to check the product description on each toy at Lovers to confirm whether or not it includes a suction base.
