Sex Restraints

Bed Restraints for Sex

There are many bed restraints for sex to choose from, and the right fit depends largely on what you want to get out of the experience.

Here are some tips to help you choose the best restraints:

• Choose breathable, padded materials to avoid discomfort and overheating. Soft restraints help ensure you enjoy the moment without chafing.
• Think about your bed type. Side rails, four‑poster bedframes or even portable under-mattress straps offer different angles and leverage.
• Before trying sex restraints, discuss hard limits, safe words and signals. This builds trust and ensures you can enjoy the experience without worry.
• Start slowly. Test one restraint at the wrist or ankle, feel the security, then build from there.

Wrist, Ankle & Full-Body Restraints

Wrist cuffs, ankle cuffs, and full‑body harness restraints give you a whole world of possibilities. They let you bind your partner in classic positions or more inventive shapes. Options like our Subdued Full Body Strap Set are great for getting inventive, and for couples who want classic positioning, the Hog Tie Kit is a great choice.

Soft materials like padded leather or suede can be gentle yet secure, while heavier restraints with buckles and straps give you more structure and intensity. Explore all the options and more in our adult store, where you can browse these sex restraint options, discover matching accessories like blindfolds for sensory play, or grab a kit that includes wrist, ankle, and spreader bar combos. You’ll also find impact tools that go great with restraints, perfect if you’re adding impact play into your play.

Sex with Restraints: Safe, Fun & Empowering

Exploring sex with restraints can be incredibly sexy, but safety should always be a number one priority. Start every session with communication and consent. Decide on a safe word or non‑verbal cue, like a tap or hand gesture (especially important if you’re using gags as well as restraints). Keep safety scissors nearby, avoid restricting circulation and take breaks to check in. Many of our restraints feature quick releases for safety, but it’s still crucial to take precautions and never leave a bound partner alone.

What makes sex with restraints so incredible is the blend of control and surrender. For the dominant partner, there’s pleasure in the responsibility and for the submissive partner, there’s freedom in letting go. That dynamic builds trust and even deeper pleasure. Begin with light bondage. Even a single wrist cuff can shift awareness and turn a familiar touch into something electrifying. Gradually, once you’re comfortable, you might add ankle restraints or even combine bed restraints sex with sensory deprivation tools like blindfolds or sound cues.

Why Choose Our Sex Restraints?

At Lovers, we know pleasure. Our collection is carefully put together by our team of sex experts, so you know that every restraint is high quality, safe and designed for your satisfaction. Our collection includes padded cuffs, adjustable harnesses and soft rail straps that fit most bed types comfortably.

We stock bed restraints sex accessories that are easy to clean, suitable for repeated use and designed to be gentle and minimize pressure points. Plus, since we also sell sex toys and sexy lingerie,  you can pair your restraint choice with accessories to complete the scene. And if you’re into a broader kink scene, we’ve still got you covered. You’ll find gear including BDSM and kink accessories, sex furniture, like sex swings, and so much more.

Beginner to Advanced Restraint Kits

For newcomers to restraint play, beginner kits are a great choice. These usually include padded wrist cuffs and ankle restraints. You can also get a discreet carrying pouch that makes them travel-friendly too. Kits that emphasize ergonomics and comfort let you focus on the experience rather than adjusting straps mid-session.

As you progress, intermediate sets might include a spreader bar, collar or under-bed rail straps. Advanced kits often have modular pieces like bed frames, straps, collars and full-body harnesses. These can be tailored so you can get exactly what you want from them. This includes everything from simple wrist binding to full‑body restraints combined with blindfolds or paddles. Add in your favorite dildo, and you’ve got the recipe for a spine-tingling kinky experience.

Not sure where to start? Go small to begin with, then add more and more pieces as you go. Over time, you’ll make setups for soft, sensual restraint or intense, bondagescenes. You can add other sex toys as you grow in confidence.