Guest written by Rain Andersen (@wearenotfriends_) a veteran sworker with eight years in adult entertainment and three years working for Lovers.
Lovers Stores is committed to being at the forefront of social change by creating an environment for you to explore your sexuality with confidence and ease. For those of us that are living in shared spaces, feeling confident and comfortable in your sexuality can feel next to impossible. Studies have shown that adult American’s are opting for shared living spaces at a higher rate than ever before. In 2017, nearly 32% of the American adult population lived in a shared household, a 29% spike from 1995 census data.
Delayed marriages, a global pandemic, and a rise in student debt are just a few factors contributing to the increase of shared living spaces. Cohabitating can mean adapting how we express ourselves sexually, but there are still plenty of ways to experience pleasure with discretion. It is my privilege to introduce you to the most discreet sex toys and BDSM gear in our inventory. In this guide we’ll be discussing the best sex toys for shared spaces!
- What Is A Discreet Sex Toy?
- What Is A Non-Representational Sex Toy?
- What Are The Quietest Sex Toys?
- The Best Discreet Mini Vibes
- The Best Discreet Strokers
- The Best Discreet Kink Products
- Shop All Discreet Sex Toys
A discreet sex toy is one that hides in plain sight. They are quiet when in use and non-representational in design. Smaller sex toys like bullets, palm vibrators, and finger vibrators are compact and storable, adding to their stealth.
You might also consider sex toys with a submersible shell, allowing it to be used under water. The shower and bath are one of the few household spaces that allows for privacy, making it a practical feature for individuals with shared spaces.
What is a Non-Representational Sex Toy?
A representational sex toy is modeled after human body parts, whereas non-representational sex toys adopt ambiguous shapes and curvatures. You can find a number of non-representational dildos and vibrators at Lovers Stores. Shop Non-Representational Sex Toys Here.
Alerting the household of your impending orgasm? It’s not considered to be very kosher. If volume is a concern, you’ll want to look to sex toys with a deep and rumbly frequency. Rumbling vibrations tend to produce less sound than their buzzy counterparts, and actually penetrate the nerves deeper, for longer, fuller orgasms. Softer materials like silicone can also help to dull the sound of vibration, though there are exceptions to this rule. Our quietest sex toy brands include LELO and We-Vibe, whose signature rumbly vibrations provide whisper quiet stimulation without sacrificing strength! Avoid air pulsators and wand massagers, known for their powerful, nevertheless audible motors.
Keep in mind that the Arcwave Ion uses air pulsation technology, which has a very noticeable sound. Using the Arcwave during a shower is one way to dull the sound of the motor.
Other Contenders to Consider: Hot Octopuss Solo Stroker, Alex Neo, Thump & Grinder, and Zero Tolerance Different Strokes
Other Contenders to Consider: Pleasure Feather Tickler, Metal Cock Rings, Em Ex Fit Harness, Kitty Blindfold