Guest written by Rain Andersen (@wearenotfriends_) a veteran sworker with eight years in adult entertainment and three years working for Lovers.
Lovers Stores is committed to being at the forefront of social change by creating an environment for you to explore your sexuality with confidence and ease. For those of us that are living in shared spaces, feeling confident and comfortable in your sexuality can feel next to impossible. Studies have shown that adult American’s are opting for shared living spaces at a higher rate than ever before. In 2017, nearly 32% of the American adult population lived in a shared household, a 29% spike from 1995 census data.
Delayed marriages, a global pandemic, and a rise in student debt are just a few factors contributing to the increase of shared living spaces. Cohabitating can mean adapting how we express ourselves sexually, but there are still plenty of ways to experience pleasure with discretion. It is my privilege to introduce you to the most discreet sex toys and BDSM gear in our inventory. In this guide we’ll be discussing the best sex toys for shared spaces!
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- What Is A Discreet Sex Toy?
- What Is A Non-Representational Sex Toy?
- What Are The Quietest Sex Toys?
- The Best Discreet Mini Vibes
- The Best Discreet Strokers
- The Best Discreet Kink Products
- Shop All Discreet Sex Toys
A discreet sex toy is one that hides in plain sight. They are quiet when in use and non-representational in design. Smaller sex toys like bullets, palm vibrators, and finger vibrators are compact and storable, adding to their stealth.
You might also consider sex toys with a submersible shell, allowing it to be used under water. The shower and bath are one of the few household spaces that allows for privacy, making it a practical feature for individuals with shared spaces.
What is a Non-Representational Sex Toy?
A representational sex toy is modeled after human body parts, whereas non-representational sex toys adopt ambiguous shapes and curvatures. You can find a number of non-representational dildos and vibrators at Lovers Stores. Shop Non-Representational Sex Toys Here.
What Are the Quietest Sex Toys?
Alerting the household of your impending orgasm? It’s not considered to be very kosher. If volume is a concern, you’ll want to look to sex toys with a deep and rumbly frequency. Rumbling vibrations tend to produce less sound than their buzzy counterparts, and actually penetrate the nerves deeper, for longer, fuller orgasms. Softer materials like silicone can also help to dull the sound of vibration, though there are exceptions to this rule. Our quietest sex toy brands include LELO and We-Vibe, whose signature rumbly vibrations provide whisper quiet stimulation without sacrificing strength! Avoid air pulsators and wand massagers, known for their powerful, nevertheless audible motors.
Our rechargeable lipstick vibrator is the perfect discreet travel toy. Stick it in your purse or makeup bag to have accessibility at any moment. Intense vibrations are sent throughout the compact bullet for mind-blowing external stimulation.
Waouhhh Vibrating Bullet ($12)
Click your way to climax with the Waouhhh Vibrating Bullet. 7 vibration modes are packed into this compact, yet powerful toy and you'll be astounded by all the ways it can take you over the edge. Super discreet, you can create pleasure anywhere and anytime
The Deep Cream Shower Therapy Stroker is a perfectly disguised masturbation toy that looks like any old shampoo bottle on the shelf in your shower. The discreet case holds a supple TPE sleeve that features a super detailed skin-like texture and an intricate channel of pleasure nubs that will have you more and more stimulated with every stroke. The flip top allows you to control the level of suction for the perfect grip on your shaft.
Fun Factory Manta ($139)
Your pleasure is our secret with the Manta's whisper quiet motor and unconventional shape. Superior quality silicone reduces the need for complicated and messy restoration powders with an open ended channel designed to accommodate any girth. Check all the boxes with Manta's ultra quiet, submersible, and ambiguous design.
ArcWave Ion ($199)
The Arcwave Ion is a cutting edge stroker, designed to mimic the build up and intensity of a clitoral orgasm. The sleek and compact stroker comes with its very own charging dock that doubles as a drying station. Sleek chrome details blend in seamlessly with other household appliances, so that no one is the wiser.
Keep in mind that the Arcwave Ion uses air pulsation technology, which has a very noticeable sound. Using the Arcwave during a shower is one way to dull the sound of the motor.
Keep in mind that the Arcwave Ion uses air pulsation technology, which has a very noticeable sound. Using the Arcwave during a shower is one way to dull the sound of the motor.
Liberator Flip Ramp ($219)
The Liberator Flip Ramp is a sex positioning pillow made to accommodate a number of erotic positions. When laid out, the Flip Ramp can elevate the hips for oral and doggie sex. Folded up, the Flip Ramp adds power and dimension to every thrust. In this shape, the Liberator Flip Ramp can be easily stored away, or left out in the open as a functional, moisture wicking ottoman.
Under the Bed Restraints ($79)
Bed restraints are a fun and discreet restraint system crafted to fit your home mattress. The ultra adjustable straps can fit beds as small as a twin and as large as a queen, allowing for four-point restriction of the ankles and wrists. Easy to place and remove, Under the Bed Restraints are the perfect accessory to bring on your next romantic getaway.
Further Readings
Orgasms 101: Everything You Need to Know for Your Big O
Lingerie for Every Body: A Guide to Picking Out Lingerie
