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AM I JUST NERVOUS? A TRAUMA-INFORMED APPROACH TO CONSENT

Enthusiastic consent is not always black-and-white. Guest author, Cory Bush, joins us to explain more about what a trauma-informed approach to consent looks like. Continue reading to see Cory's best...

CANCELING SEX DUE TO CHRONIC ILLNESS OR DISABILITY

What would it feel like to cancel sex because of a physical condition or disability? Disability advocate, Andrew Gurza, guest writes this column on sex & disability, offering up three ways...

LOVERS PLEASURE UNIVERSITY: KINK & BDSM 101

It’s time for a crash course in pleasure! Which of our four, 101-subjects will you be taking notes on this semester? Today's Lovers University Blog explores the world of BDSM, and the best...

A GUIDE TO MANAGING MISMATCHED LIBIDOS

Is your sex drive higher or lower than your partner’s? It’s not as uncommon as you might think and it doesn’t have to be an endless source of frustration. We’re...

LOVERS PLEASURE UNIVERSITY: MODERN PLEASURE EDUCATION

Thinking about buying your first sex toy? This guide will help you to build confidence in your purchases by explaining the different styles of sex toys and how they can influence a person's sexual...

DATING WITH HERPES IS JUST LIKE DATING

Guest writer Courtney Brame describes his experiences with dating after contracting the herpes simplex virus. Continue reading to find out what happened next!

HOW TO BUILD A SEX ROOM: THE ART OF EROTIC FENG SHUI

If you didn't want a sex room before, we bet you do now! Netflix's new series, How to Build a Sex Room has inspired couples all over the U.S. to make...