Shopping for your best friend is all about finding the ideal present that is thoughtful, enjoyable, and fun. Luckily, sex toys are the gift that just keeps giving...and giving….and giving! In fact, according to a survey of 2,000 LELO customers, 65% of women under 35 received their first sex toy from a female friend as a present! We all want the best for our friends and what says “we love you”, more than a great orgasm?

When the holiday season becomes a frenzy, give the gift of self-care with the perfect sex toy or accessory that matches their personality and is sure to bring them pleasure all year long. A few things to keep in mind first:

  1. Do they actually want a sex toy? Yes, even with our friends, it’s very important to express consent! If you have a newer friendship, or you two have never spoken about pleasure before, this could be a hit or miss situation. That being said, if you have the type of relationship where you speak openly about pleasure and they’ve even dropped hints, there is a much clearer runway.
  2. Go shopping together! To be entirely sure you’re getting exactly what they want, why not experience the fun of exploration, with them. If that’s not possible, do a virtual shop at
  3. Unsure? Buy them a gift card! If you have trouble deciding which toy is right, or you’re unsure of what things your friend is into, why not let them choose? Gift cards are great for any occasion and are available in all 42 of our retail stores! 

Now that we’ve gotten logistics out of the way, below is our curated guide to BFF-approved sex toys:

For your friend that is new to sex toys:

GLAM BULLET VIBRATOR ($54): a classic bullet shape with a gorgeous purple ombré look, they can use this for internal or external stimulation. With an easy-to-use one button control, this is the perfect introduction to sex toys. 


For your friend that loves self care:

LELO SONA 2 ($99): Contactless suction that feels like cunnilingus. Discreet, sleek, and waterproof, this toy is often described as 'surround sound' for your clitoris- perfect for bath lovers!

For the friend that is effortlessly cool:

MAGIC WAND - RECHARGEABLE ($169): This is an OG classic with endless possibilities now that it's cordless and rechargeable. Massage your shoulders and then your clitoris for ultimate relaxation.

For your best friend with a penis:



ZT VORTEX STROKER ($29.50): Masturbation sleeves add a realistic feel to solo sex. This intuitive and easy to clean stroker is great for beginners and anyone looking to enhance their solo play. Don't forget the lube!


For your friend that only wears black:

WE-VIBE SILVER DELIGHTS KIT ($229): Limited edition, in a sleek black color palette - who doesn’t love sex toys that match your wardrobe? Featuring the Womanizer Premium and We-Vibe Tango, this kit is perfect for enjoying your alone time and sharing with a partner. Save $69 when you buy the kit, compared to buying each toy separately. 

For your sassy friend:

SCREW IT BULLET VIBRATOR ($24): Sassy, simple, and water-proof, this vibe is straight-up fun. 

For your health nut friend:

SHE-OLOGY WEIGHTED KEGEL SET ($49): Calling all pelvic floors: here is the gift to strengthen and delight. Customize each workout with the weighted kegel balls so they can easily track their progress!

For the friend that’s in a long distance relationship:


WE-VIBE MOXIE ($129): Just because they’re LDR, doesn’t mean they’re not DTF. This panty vibe can be controlled via app or remote for tons of discreet fun!

For the friend that is the life of the party:

PARTY MARTY ($59): Frosted dildo with a rainbow confetti design - need we say more? 7.5" of nothing but party, Marty is harness compatible and has a suction cup. BONUS: It comes with a free bullet vibe!

For the adventurous friend:

SATISFYER ANAL PLUGS 3 PIECE SET ($19): This 3-piece set is great for getting out of their comfort zone slowly and easily by gradually increasing the size of the plug they use. Don't forget lots of lube!

Stocking stuffers (Under $20):

SOY CANDLE GUAVALAVA ($16): specially formulated to melt at just three degrees above body temperature, 3 in 1 massage candles don’t just provide romantic light and fragrance – the melted wax can also be used as a moisturizer or warm massage oil.


LOVERS WATER BASED LUBE ($19.50): a nightstand staple, water-based lube is compatible with all toys and condoms.


BONDAGE SEDUCTIONS GAME ($12.50): a fun game set for beginners looking to explore bondage & kink!


JO MASSAGE GLIDE - LAVENDER ($19.50): This massage oil doubles as a silicone lubricant! Infused with Lavender essential oils, no matter how you use it, this massage oil will be sure to provide a relaxing experience. 


LOVERS FOAMING TOY CLEANER ($14.50): Our body safe toy cleaner foams up to keep your toys squeaky clean! 


With Pleasure,