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- What is 69?
- Why Do We Call It 69?
- What Do People Do During 69 Sex?
- Why Do People Enjoy 69ing?
- The Best 69 Positions
What is 69?
69 describes when two individuals perform oral sex on each other at the same time.Why Do We Call It 69?
While historical artifacts suggest that the “69 act” has been in circulation for some time, the term “69” did not appear in mainstream media until the mid-1790’s. There are many rumors about where this term originated, but it is generally understood that the 69 number, when paired together, depicts the heads and bodies of two people, performing oral sex on each other. This juvenile and playful terminology has lent to the activity’s sustained mystique.What Do People Do During 69 Sex?
69 sex can be performed by any combination of people (e.g.; M/F, M/M, F/F, etc.). It is considered a popular form of foreplay that allows all participants to be stimulated simultaneously.
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Depending on the individuals involved, 69 sex will typically involve a combination of blow jobs, hand jobs, fingering, and cunnilingus techniques. Many people may choose to supplement 69 sex with adult toys, dirty talk, and other forms of foreplay designed to enhance arousal and increase excitement leading up to sex.
Why Do People Enjoy 69ing?
There are many reasons why 69 sex has become such a cultural phenomenon! One of the primary reasons that people are attracted to 69 sex is that it allows people to experience and receive pleasure at the same time. Additionally, 69ing allows for people to get up close and personal- perceiving their sexual partners from new and exciting angles.
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The Best 69 Positions
As hot as 69 may sound, it can be a bit of a logistical nightmare. “69 is overrated,” says Natalie, 23, “it’s impossible to focus on what you’re feeling or what you’re doing. There is just too much going on!”
“Too much coordination,” agrees a male respondent. “I think it's overwhelming and can be unpleasant due to the odor,” replies another anonymous female.
69 can be depicted as a beginner activity, but it can be much more complex when put into practice. This can feel distracting to some people and can retract from the excitement that 69 sex claims to offer. Fortunately, there are many ways to adapt this style of sex. We’ve rounded up a few of our favorite ways to spice up this position below!
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The Classic 69: The Classic 69 position involves one person laying on their back while the other person climbs over the top of their body, straddling them. This position, like all 69 positions, should align a person’s genitals with their partner’s mouth. For additional comfort, place a firm pillow or a wedge beneath the hips and neck of the person whose back is resting against the bed.
The Side Piece: If you don’t enjoy the Classic 69 position, then you may enjoy this variation! The Side Piece Position is all about facilitating oral sex while laying on your side. This position can dramatically reduce the amount of physical effort required to perform oral sex in tandem. Once again, add a pillow under the neck of each participant to improve comfort.
The Face Plant: The Face Plant is a sex position designed to serve your partner up on a platter! In this position, one participant sits down, while the other stands, bent over in front of them. We suggest stretching before and after to stay limber!
The Yin Yang: Despite what the name may imply, 69 sex is not restricted to only two people. The Dinner Guest position invites additional partners into the mix, creating a train of bodies that fan out onto your bedroom floor.
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Further Readings:
Why 69 is the Internets Coolest Number: New York Times
How to 69 - Mutual Oral Sex Etiquette: Ask Men
Every Variation of 69 Humankind Has Thought Up: SheKnows
