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Tis the season to be jolly, and nothing makes a person more jolly than an orgasm. If you’re wrinkling your nose at that statement, then you may want to head to our Orgasms 101 Blog where we have tons of information on orgasms and how you can get yourself one (#ShamelessPlug #NoThatsNotTheNameOfAnAnalPlug). 

As you’re thinking of all the gifts you’re going to buy everyone on your list, have you decided what you’re gifting yourself?

If you’re a human existing in the world right now, you’ve probably had one hell of a year (years? The last couple have all blurred together for everyone right?) and if you’re wondering whether you deserve to indulge a little extra this holiday season, the answer is an emphatic YES. This is us, your place for pleasure, giving you permission... nay, wholeheartedly encouraging you to treat yourself this season. Indulge in pleasure, if you will, and what better way to do just that than to give yourself the gift of orgasm with a gorgeous, satisfying, luxury sex toy from Lovers?

Not sure if indulging in pleasure is for you? We created this handy list of reasons why it definitely is!

Have you decided what you’re gifting yourself?


  1. 5 Reasons to Indulge in Pleasure
  2. Our Favorite Luxury Items for the Holiday Season

5 Reasons to Indulge in Pleasure

  1. You Deserve It
    Hello, you’re still living and working and loving in a global pandemic. We all deserve high-fives and sex toys for this monumental effort.
  2. Pleasure is Self-Care
    Pandemic aside, you are inherently worthy of pleasure, joy, and whatever happiness you can squeeze out of this life. Making pleasure a priority is an act of self-care. No one can pour from an empty cup.
  3. Orgasms are Good for Your Health
    This isn’t like that terrible boyfriend who told you swallowing would make your teeth whiter (no offense to those who enjoy a good swallow). Orgasms release oxytocin (a feel good chemical in your brain) and decrease cortisol (the stress hormone). They’ve been shown to be good for your skin, your heart, sleep, immunity, and more! Do it for your health.
  4. Your Capsule Wardrobe is Complete.
    Now you can build a capsule sex toy collection. So many of our toys multitask, which makes it easy to invest in a few that you'll spend time with over and over (and over) again.

  5. Holiday FOMO Can Be Avoided.
    There are so many new and amazing luxury toys this holiday season, we can almost guarantee a nasty case of FOMO if you don’t stuff your own stocking with one of these beauties this year.

If those reasons aren’t enough to convince you that this pleasure indulgence is a need and not a want this season, allow us to dazzle you with a few of our favorite luxury toys to choose from. Perhaps a peek at these perfect presents will have you sending your holiday Wish List to your Lovers Afterglow rewards account rather than Santa. 

The Best Luxury Sex Toys for the Holiday Season

So, which one will find its way under your tree this year? You don’t have to choose just one. Take a look at our favorite luxury products for giving and receiving this year. Happy holidays from Lovers!

This award-winning couples vibrator allows you and your loved ones to go hands-free this holiday season. So quiet, even the in-laws won't detect these rumbly vibrations! The We-Vibe Chorus is an app-enabled sex toy, that can be worn independently or during partnered experiences. Provide powerful stimulation to the clitoris, G-spot, prostate, or perineum with its versatile C-shaped design. This wearable panty vibe is nothing like your grandma's ugly holiday sweater- a poseable wire core ensures the perfect fit during every use! 

It's a holiday miracle: an upgrade to our best-selling clitoral air pulsator has landed in-stores in three new styles and colors! The Premium 2.0 is one of the most luxurious sex toys on the market, boasting 14 power settings and an enhanced auto pilot function for surprising and unexpected sensations. Better then the latest iPhone, and sold at a fraction of the cost- give you or your partner the gift of pleasure this season with a Womanizer sex toy.

This compact, Grinch-colored vibe is the perfect gift to stuff your stockings with. The Semilino is a compact, ribbed sex toy with a powerful internal motor, designed to send vibration rippling through your body. Small enough to hold between partners and safe to submerge under water, this versatile toy does it all! You can find this special edition of the Semilino exclusively at Lovers!
The We-Vibe Date Night Kit is a limited edition holiday bundle built for two! Get your hands on two of We-Vibe's most popular couples toys in their limited edition forest green color. The Date Night Kit features We-Vibe's world-famous app-controlled cock ring and rabbit vibrator, perfect for long-distance holiday play, with a savings of $60.00 compared to buying each product individually. This is one holiday deal you won't want to miss!
Sportsheets Special Edition Door Jam is the portable positioning system you've been searching for! Now equipped with a detachable anchor pad, the Special Edition Door Jam can accommodate any harness-compatible dildo or bullet. Perfect for solo play, people with physical disabilities, or couples, the Door Jam's ultra padded seat and foot supports are designed to support up to 325 pounds of weight. This luxury sex swing can be used to support a number of erotic positions. Whether standing, sitting, or tilting, this swings gold chrome support bars and fully adjustable straps make it easy to accomplish some of the most challenging positions.

Shop All Luxury Sex Toys

Have more questions? Our in-store experts are happy to help at any of our Lovers stores or chat with our customer services reps on our website. 
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Further Readings:

How to Gift a Sex Toy (A Step-by-Step Guide): Lovers
When Sex Toys Are a Good Gifting Idea: FemmeFun
27 Sex-Postive Gift Ideas: Allure Magazine