Guest written by Rain Andersen (@wearenotfriends_) a veteran sworker with nine years in adult entertainment and five years working for Lovers.

Are you looking for new ways to explore your sexuality? Are you recently partnered and gearing up for “the talk?” You might consider using a Yes/No/Maybe (Y/N/M) List!

QUICK LINKS

1. What is a Yes/No/Maybe List?
2. Can You Fail a Yes/No/Maybe List?
3. The Benefits of a Yes/No/Maybe List
4. The Lovers Y/N/M List

What is a Yes/No/Maybe List?

A Yes/No/Maybe List is an activity that allows individuals to ranks their preference to specific sexual activities, words, positions, and kinks. This ranking system encourages people to make thoughtful assessments about their sexuality while prioritizing communication and consent.

Can You Fail a Yes/No/Maybe List?

There is no wrong way to fill out a Yes/No/Maybe List. A Yes/No/Maybe List is designed to familiarize individuals with their sexual preferences. This can empower people to recognize other forms of pleasure and facilitate ongoing conversations about sex.

What are the Benefits of a Yes/No/Maybe List?

People often use the Yes/No/Maybe List Model as a way to identify their sexual interests, but a Y/N/M List can have a variety of different benefits for respondents!

You can use a Y/N/M List to…

• Communicate Sexual Boundaries
• Explore Sexual Curiosities & Fantasies
• Inspire New Activities
• Check-In on How Your Sexual Preferences Have Changed
• Create Specific Preferences for Different Kink or Switch Personas
• Get to Know a New Partner

The Lovers Y/N/M List

Ready to get started? We’ve created this special holiday-edition of the classic Y/N/M List to get you inspired during gifting season. This year, be the gift of pleasure.

Further Readings:

How to Gift a Sex Toy (A Step-by-Step Guide): Lovers
The Super Powered Yes No Maybe List: Bex Talks Sex
How to Make a Sexual Inventory List: MasterClass

WITH PLEASURE,

LOVERS